Relationships

“You feel more in control when you are doing something you want to do”

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When we are doing something we want to do, we are more likely to be motivated, engaged, and focused. This can lead to a feeling of greater control over our own actions and outcomes. There are a few reasons for this. First, when we are doing something we enjoy, we are more likely to be …

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A talented life is a troubled life.

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The idea that a talented life is a troubled life is a subjective and often debated concept. It suggests that individuals with great talent or exceptional abilities may also face significant challenges or difficulties in their lives. There are a few different perspectives on this notion: On the other hand, it’s important to remember that …

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relationships are less about what people think about than how they feel about you.

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Relationships are less about what people think about you than how they feel about you. Relationships are deeply rooted in emotions and feelings rather than just external perceptions or opinions. Here are some key points to consider: Overall, while external opinions and perceptions can influence a relationship to some extent, what truly matters is the …

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The problem with feelings is when you try and  talk about them they try and stop you.

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Sometimes you feel stuck and unable to talk about your feelings. It’s important to know that you’re not alone in this. Many people struggle with expressing their emotions, for a variety of reasons. Here are some possible reasons why feelings might stop you from talking: * Fear of judgment. You might be afraid of being …

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We live in a sea of expectations 11/17 Children feel comfortable when they behave in the way they feel they are expected to behave. That is to say in their childhood interpretation of the expectations of their care givers.  And they develop unconscious coping strategies to gain approval and praise. But when children become adults …

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